I adopted Winnie and Wylie this passed summer from our local shelter here in K.C.. Both are MF born females. Winnie is the most laid back, adorable, sweet and gentle girl you can imagine. Wylie on the other hand is apparently still going through his "terrible twos". After reading all the other postings from you all and reading other news groups etc., I have found one thing that all of you seem to have that I don't. You all seem to have effectionate, snuggly fuzzies and I don't! I spoil them rotten with treats and toys and beds and love and kisses and the closest I've come to being snuggled to, was when I had to take Winnie to the vet twice for "poopie problems" and she must have been so tired she just gave up and let me hold her without any fuss. Their attitude is "feed us, play with us and then leave us alone". This makes me terribly sad and frustrated, when I read about all the other fuzzies who sound so different. What can I do? Pete [log in to unmask] [Posted in FML issue 2548]