I heard a similar problem from a fuzzbutt owner on another list, and this was my advice: be the Playtime Enforcer :) (a weird role to take on, given that most ferrets won't _stop_ playing) Basically, you have to intervene as head ferret and try to incorporate all the ferrets in the fun stuff they like. When you play, try to involve the kit and one or two of the big kids with the same toy, like playing tug of war with socks. Or stick them both in a sheet and hand wrestle them. And don't forget the Power of Treats: every time you give a big kid treats, make sure the kit is right there, getting treats at the same time. You might even get the big kids to get kissy with her that way - a Tone-covered buddy is ok by any ferret. And when the big kids get too rough, separate, do a time out, and start all over again. When they're asleep, put them together so they get used to cuddling each other - but do that only when you can supervise waking time, since they're bound to be crabby about it at first. Long story short, I found that Sculley acclimated to Buster (who was a SUPER spoiled little brat) much easier when I orchestrated play time. You have to get the older ferrets to see the new kit as a friend to have fun with, not a competitor for territory and affection. Sculley was an absolute hellion about it at first, and she came around, so I've got hope for your crew :) Kat Kat Neumeyer Research Associate, Pharmacor Decision Resources (781) 487-3758 PH (781) 487-5750 FAX [log in to unmask] [Posted in FML issue 2526]