Hi Kathy..I also adopted a very shy (had been caged and unsocialized for quite a while). It took me several months of tough and cuddles and letting Angel Baby feel safe before she came out of it. She was panicky when her cage was out of sight so I moved it into the living room (a new decorator touch, dontcha think?) and put it on the hearth where she could go back and hide when she needed to. She is a totally different ferret now. Snuggles, on the couch, with a blanket are her favorite thing..cuddled up by my neck she cleans my ears for me <g>. # months ago she wouldn't come close. Try lotsa love! And ferretone and raisins mailto:[log in to unmask] If I would have known how long I was going to live, I would have taken better care of myself!!!!! http://www.eatsleepcode.com/vegwr [Posted in FML issue 2450]