I couldn't agree more with Juliana's response. I am a foster Dad with 10 of my on (8 of which are adpoted) and 10 fosters. I too have to balance my time between the fosters and my own as well as cleaning cages, going laundry and dealing with potential adoptions. If you think you are a bad mother ask your ferrets, I sure they couldn't disagree with you more. Well put Juliana, I'm proud to call you my friend. Ron [Posted in FML issue 2102]