In response to the post yesterday I must say that I disagree-while I do empathize with Tim, I do not agree with him. This mailing list is about more than just seeking advice. It is about sharing, sharing stories and problems and funny little anecdotes about our babies-and sometimes it is about sharing the pain we feel when we lose one of them. When I read one of those tear jerkers about fuzzies that have passed over the rainbow bridge I cry too-like a baby sometimes, but then I look over at my babies and I feel so lucky for the time that I get to spend with them, because I know that someday I will be in the same boat that many of the people on this list are-and I know that when that time does come all the people who have expressed their love and compassion for their ailing fuzzies-will be there for me too. Not all of us have aol. sincerely, Mike Share [Posted in FML issue 1895]