I keep seeing all of the postings saying that everyone has ferts that like to cuddle and sleep in laps. Mine are like wildfire - they never sit still and only are calm in my arms for a few moments at a time before they want down to explore. They are always glad to see me when I get home from work and come out from where they've been sleeping to greet me. However, their attitude is that they are only putting up with me while I get my 'fur fix' then they want to play, eat and sleep (in that order). All 3, Spice, Chloe & Chanel, are less than a year old. They are gentle and extremely playful. They were all adopted within 6 mos. of one another and are all less than a yr. old. Any ideas? Are they going thru a 'teenage' thing? Will they ever calm down & become affectionate? I'll love them no matter what, but I sure would love to have a fzzy thing fall asleep in my lap once... --diana & her brood. [Posted in FML issue 1555]