Bob Your response to the post about sharing grief was exactly what I would have wanted to say. The FML is a community, and communities share good times and bad. I guess I better add my nicknames to the list before it is too late: Belle: Smelly Belley, Little Girlie, Caruso's Twisted Sister Caruso: Spike, Bebe (with accents, French pronunciation), Fat Boy Both: my sweet babies, the kids Happy Dook Year. Linda, Richard, Joy and my sweet babies [Posted in FML issue 1429]