I don't post often, but this really hit a button in me and I have to respond. No this is not a flame, I believe everyone has a right to their opinion, and I felt like expressing mine. Mike Chaput: I understand that you may not wish to hear of a person's trials when their loved one's pass on and that is your right (skip the section and read on) ...but I hope that those that still wish to express their grief with us still do! I don't mind the nature of the posts, this is reality and this is how people feel and act. Although I have yet to lose one of my fuzzies, they have been ill several times and I have suffered almost as much as losing them. I came here to express my fears and sadness and received much support from people who TRULY understand my feelings. I wouldn't want to take that comfort away from anyone. So as far as I am concerned, this is a forum for all to express how they FEEL about their Little Ones, and if you feel uncomfortable with it, please just skip the post and read on, don't take the comfort away others. Jennifer [Posted in FML issue 1428]