I'd like to remind everyone that Mr. Chaput took the time and had the interest to post his honest opinion to the list. Two reponses were so much of a flame that I didn't post them, and a couple that ARE posted come close. I appreciate people's opinions, and appreciate the feedback on and off the list. I think most FML readers appreciate hearing opinions too. Please let's remember that the list IS all of us stating our opinions, even if they be unpopular. I do believe that the grieving posts are appropriate for the FML, though as I told Mike personally, they probably COULD get out of hand - I mean if the entire FML was compused only of such posts then I think we'd have a problem. Quite a peculiar one though! Thanks to all, Bill [Posted in FML issue 1428]