I want to express my appreciation for the caring and supportive responses I received from several FMLers re: my SO's attitude toward maintenance of our 2 girls. Gary H., Pat B., Cheryl F., Krystal S., Gloria J., and Megan S. - your input and personal experience sound so much like my situation. I'm relieved to know that I am not alone. A *funny* - SO asked me last July if we could get another one! My answer to him cannot be posted publicly [Your welcome BIG]. Shari in Raleigh, NC [Posted in FML issue 1323]