Barb Carlson - Your poem/song is wonderful. If you've ever heard the civil war tune- I think the name is something like "Good old Rebel" ..... (It goes something like "I'm a good old rebel, now thats just what I am, and for this Yankee nation, I do not give a damn, I'm glad I fought again' her, I only wish we'd won".....) ...... it fits perfectly. Ok...so my husband listens to strange music! [Posted in FML issue 0472]