Debbie, I totally understand your frustration, been there done that got the t-shirt. we all know by now that no matter what you put on here someone is going to get angry. I personally think we are to politically correct. I think people look for a reason to get mad. With that said I totally understand where you are coming from. We are here to help not to get ignored. It is hard when you help someone and they turn their nose up at it. I guess if we were being politically correct she is stupid. See everyone that doesn't sound better either. Maybe we should stick to Twit. Kindness does matter but it also can be totally wasted on some people. I thank you for trying to help her. In the end that is all we can do. Quit apologizing, you did the right thing. Ann's Ferret Shelter & Adoption Inc. 501(c)3 non-profit organization Manchester, Ohio 45144 Ann Church, Director 937-549-1960 http://annsferretshelter.weebly.com/ [Posted in FML 8158]