Hi Heather -- It can be hard, but do your best to just toss all that stuff -- who cares what they think when you are doing the best you can. And this time, look at the wonderful results! Plus when our best isn't perfect, we still did our best -- otherwise we'd have done something else. We don't forget the ferrets whose people gave nothing like the attention and care that we did and do. [Posted in FML 7554]