Vicki, I read your post on Fridays FML, and immediately said a prayer for George and Aimee, and also one for you. Whether you are religious or not, the golden rule "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" still applies to us as intelligent caring human beings. There was a part of your post that was rude, nasty, and named names that do not need to be named. It was completely unnecessary to the context and message of your post, and true or not, there is no GOOD reason to have posted it. I do not know a single person involved, nor do I know you. I hope the persons you named are bigger than this and can resist posting a response. That is the higher path. It is posts like this that have ignited flame-wars, name-calling, and many other examples of poor behavior on the part of many on this list over the years. I hope you folks can patch up your differences, and work together for the good of the ferrets, but if you can't, please keep your personal dirty laundry off the list. I don't want to read it, I want to discuss ferrets. Thanks! Ken [Posted in FML 7131]