StacI, - and any others I may have inadvertantly offended with my tirade: Ok - you are right. I did not even think to extend you the courtesy of emailing you privately and for that I apologize. I think I may have "stepped in it" a bit here, when I opened my mouth, and inserted my foot. StacI - I am not blaming you for any of this. I was only trying to say that the subject is getting out of control - and for people to go on and on and on - was getting old. I sincerely mean it when I say I apologize to you. I meant no offense, and I should have probably read what I wrote BEFORE I posted it. I don't believe my post said ANYBODY "started" it - I believe it just said - this is out of control. I did not say you were THE INSTIGATOR, however, yes, I did use your name, as it was your post that flustered me with the fact that facts are being demanded regarding the funds and other issues, regarding this rescue. Nor did I say you were "bad" as you referred to yourself. I'd never say anything like that - publically OR privately. I don't know where you came up with that, but please put it out of your mind. Yes, you have every right to know where the money was spent, especially if YOU donated to the cause - money, cages, food - whatever, and/or are wanting to donate to it. Yes, you have that right. What I was simply trying to do is say that this ongoing discussion is hurting people's feelings, and that isn't what this forum is for. StacI - asking questions is never wrong. And you were asking some good ones, but the way you were asking them, well it seemed kinda "not so nice" - but again, that is only MY intrepretation - and if it was wrong - I'm sorry. Please try to remember - no everyone out here is "out to get" someone, or even, "out to hurt" someone. Believe me when I say - I wasn't trying to do either of those things to you. I sent this privately to your email as well. Please try not to be so defensive though. Never was it my intention to upset you. It was just my intention to try and divert this conversation to one where we are helping out furkids again. Public apology posted. Foot in Mouth Disease - confirmed. Kim and Her army of idiots Lord, help me to be grateful for what I have, and not greedy for what I want..... [Posted in FML 5819]