Dearest Isabella and Super Tonks, As a hoomin who's been married for 28 years, I have two words for the two of you which I hope that you take into serious consideration BEFORE you get married................... DAVE RAMSEY!!! You need to collect your little selves and get on down to sign up for the 13 week Financial Peace University program. Do you have any idea how many ferrets are in my shelter, living in little apartments, because of divorce? Isabella, it does not mean you won't be able to shop anymore, but it will help you and Tonks to learn to be on the same page about money and spending - you will have to agree on things before they're done. Tonks, you'll find out that you're not alone and that there are other people, er.....uh......Super Heros in the same or even worse situations than you are. You WILL have to make the B Word a part of your daily life......... No, not BUY........BUDGET!! And you'll have to cut up your credit cards......if the kibble is not there to buy something, you have to wait until you have it, that's all there is to it! You don't want to start our your married lives with your tails all poofed up over something as silly as money!! Congratulations & Best of Luck to the two of you. Shelter Mom Jerri Louisville, KY [Posted in FML 5654]