While I understand how crushed those who gave to the tree are to not get a response from their ferrets (especially those posted about who aren't on the fml) please keep in mind how hectic life is for all of us, then multiply it by, I don't know 10 or 100. I know when Baby was sick everything (EVERYTHING - planning wedding, house hunting) got pushed aside. Not to mention holiday thank you's and birthday cards!!! I know what it's like to address a card ahead of time, then never write the letter. It's pathetic and I have no excuse, but shelter operators are busy. It is absolutely wonderful to receive a heartfelt card of thanks, but that's not always possible for them, not at the expense of time caring for the ferrets. But I have a small, possibly helpful solution. When you send a donation or items, include your e-mail address with the note. I sometimes feel silly doing this, as if I expect a response, but i just figure if the shelter is so inclined that it will be a lot easier for them to send a quick e-mail note than to find the time to put pen to paper. Dooks Risa [Posted in FML 5483]