Dear Tonya and Fir Kids: I am so sorry to hear that you are considering leaving the FML after such a short time. I have learned to skim over the Garbage and look for the good in this FML. We ferret owners, shelter operators, etc. sometimes forget that we are not Experts or at least not the end all, know all, and forget to word our messages in a way that is not argumentative but rather shows a different way of doing things or thinking. It is my understand that as of yet there Are No Perfect People, so there can be No One prefect way of doing things, or of thinking. Please forgive the too speed fingers that type out in anger and give this group another chance. I have received so much valuable information from this FML and others that I would hate for you to leave with a bad taste in your mouth, when there are so many knowledgeable ferret people here who can help. We just need to remember to stick to "What works best for me..... or You might want to try... Instead of attacking one another. Remember the old saying if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all?!! Please also remember that things type can easily be misunderstood and we should not be so quick to jump to conclusions. If you really have a problem with someone on the FML, you have their email address, take it off FML and privately email them. If we can't stand united for the Fur Kids, Who will?!!! I know we can!! Let's try and not attack each other, after all we are all after the same end result, To care, love and give our babies and those less fortunate, a better life. Thank You Dear Friends. I appreciate you all. Thank you to all of you who donate to shelters and help us to help those fur kids in need! Thank you Tonya for letting me say I'm sorry and I hope you will stay. Beth [Posted in FML issue 5377]