Once again Wolfy, in her infinite wisdom, has hit the nail right on the thumb...oops, I mean head! We can all be cranky, obnoxious, and down right jerky at times. Part of being the human beast......as long as it's just the occasional, and not the constant, then "it's all good." And, it is so, so true that without seeing and knowing a person, one cannot sometimes get the "tone" correct of what they are trying to say. We all can have trouble, even if it's just a bad day, in getting our words and true meanings across at times. The truly evil ones are the ones that blast others for their opinions, blast them for disagreeing with them, etc., etc., if it doesn't agree with them. On a consistent basis..... It is so easy to be cruel when you are in an online environment and not "face-to-face." I look forward to the day when we can "see" each other (although God knows I will probably scare the Hell of some folks......especially first thing in the morning) easily as we e-mail, post, etc. Maybe we will all think twice, even on bad days, about being unkind. I can dream, right? And believe me, I've been a total cow myself on occasion...........so I'm not vying for Sainthood. They don't make perverted, warped individuals Saints, anyway......... LOL! And if their are people in business suits, does that mean if I show up in my "Legally Blonde" T-shirt, no one will categorize me as an "immediate" weirdo? As for tattoos, I have the one my daughter bought me for my 40th birthday-midlife-crises (those suckers hurt.....I don't know how people like my older kids, for example, can get the big ones.........) mine is in a discrete "never-sees-the-light-of-day-unless-I-go-swimming" place.......and no where near any "naught bits" thank you very much! Seriously, it's nice to hear people are kind there......and it's nice to see civility reign here again. We are blessed! Catherine Behind The Zion Curtain "No one looks good in paisley...." - Elle Woods [Posted in FML issue 4805]