To know or not to know I have found out after my original male, Baby, was opened up that he had tumors on both adrenals and that the right had intruded on the vena cave and my vet said that he would not make it off the table if she proceeded and the best thing was so sew him up, let him come home and live for how ever long he has left here with me. I think I would rather not know about when he will cross over the bridge as it is causing me grief and will continue to do so until some time after he leaves. So now I treat them all like this is their last day and hope you all do to. Patrick and the Magnificent Seven [Posted in FML issue 4719]