I am a very busy person so I do not get to post a whole lot but I do definately read the posts daily. I am a avid Ebayer, I buy so mucg stuff on ebay my husband could take away my paypal lol. I hate to be judgemental and rude HOWEVER........ THIS IS HOG WASH...... just because you kept getting outbid by another ferret lover and you get mad you go and do something like this. You say if this happened to one of us you think we would share your concerns? I tell you what I have been outbid alot, I have bid as high as i thought something was worth but just because some one else was willing to pay more than I was doesnt mean I have the right to get my undies in a wad and go messing with people reputation and ebay account. I think your just all upset because she kept out bidding you. So what if it went up in a matter of minutes. So she put a final bid on it higer than anything you bid. SO WHAT......... if i enter 25 bucks on something when you bid lower it is going to show me keeping on outbidding you. So she wanted it real bad and was willing to pay more, I am sorry but a hald sculpted item that some one put their every last bit of sweat and love into is worth alot if you ask me. 20 bucks is probably too low of a price I would think. Lady I think your in the wrong and being very vindictive, not to mention now your upset because you have to pay for the items you cant afford, seems like you may have done a little shilling yourself, why would you bid higher than you can afford. Thats YOUR fault not hers. Next time don't bid more than you can afford. What your did was slanderous and vindictive no matter what you say. I hope I dont come up against you for something I want on ebay, heaven forbid if I am willing to pay more than you and outbid you, you might have my hard earned well paid ebay account and feedback taken away from me in your next tiffy. Seems like you got alot of growing up to do and maybe you should stay off ebay if you cant handle being outbid after all it is an auction, being out bid happens and sometimes things are worth more than your willing to pay, just cuz your cheap doesnt mean the product is worth what that wonderful lady put into making it. I know my blanket sets I make and my quilts sure are worth more than what you would probably pay. I feel sorry for you but I feel more sorry for the young lady that you ruined. [Posted in FML issue 4669]