It is unfortunate to read a post today of a person who has decided to leave our forum from negative replies being seen to others. I lost a fert a few months ago and got many supportive and helpful replies, only one person was negative but she has a deep personal problem with many people and those of the post did not side with her at all. There is always one in a bunch and unfortunately their posts get listed with the others. It takes all kinds of people to make up this world and all are needed even if some are intentionally abrasive. Over all I see few negative posts, the fewer I see the better but they will occur time to time. If these negative posts are ignored and the author is not allowed to get 'to ya' then life will go on. May it be so ! Gordon and Byte-me [Posted in FML issue 4602]