Sometimes I respond to questions placed on the FML, But I mail them to the person who placed the question, then I look the next day to see what other reactions are given, more often than not there are no reactions to what seems to me to be a very important or interesting question, at first this surprised me, but I suddenly realized, that like me other people were probably mailing straight to the question asker instead of to the FML, probably like me they are worried that someone on the list might not agree and we would get anther flaming match. And I wonder, how are we going to learn from each other if no one dares give their opinion anymore Food for though [Posted in FML issue 4579]