Karen - I just wanted to say - good for you - coming back to the forum to clarify your situation like you did - but darn it all, you should not have had to do that. You brought into light the real reason of this forum our mutual love of fuzzies. We started as a simple group that organized to help one another. I would have to say it seems that there are people out here that have too much time on their hands though. I have watched this forum become a place of "public flogging" of other folks, and it has gotten ridiculous! There isn't one of us out there that is "better" than the other - and before we all start casting stones at other people, we need to look in the mirror at ourselves. We need to remember what this forum is for - and stay on that tract. I have watched people literally be torn to bits out here - and for what reason? If someone is having a hard time "understanding" someone else's comments, or choices they have made - then by golly, do something about it if you feel the absolute need to - but do it on your OWN time, in YOUR OWN forum!! Stop relying on this email to publicily whip someone you don't like. If you have a personal problem with someone, fine - but please remember - it doesn't have to be OUR problem! The worst part of all this? I am posting this anonymously - so people don't whip ME for it! Now can we please get back to the business at hand - our ferrets? Thanks everyone!! [KA] [Posted in FML issue 4548]