In a message dated 4/8/04, [log in to unmask] writes: >I am on disability and take care of my elderly mother I don't mean this as a flame! I promise you, I'm just trying to point out some things you may not have thought of. That said, what has your response got to do with the question of being a responsible ferret caretaker? Sorry, but all it proves is that 1) money is a serious issue, 2) you have a huge responsibility besides the ferret, and 3) you are disabled, which for all we know could include mental instability or severe physical handicap, either of which could interfere with proper care of the ferret. Any of these situations could certainly be overcome (is there anyone on this list who *isn't* struggling with money AND with other, serious obligations???? And certainly all of us have our own physical and mental limitations, too!). However, having all 3 situations together doesn't convince me that this ferret *desperately needs* you and that I should send money to you (even if I *did* want to support PetCo in their ferret sales, which I don't). However, if you're still convinced that you would be a wonderful ferret caretaker (and you may well be!!!!), then I would certainly encourage you to contact your local ferret shelter, go through the normal screening process, and adopt a ferret who truly *needs* a home. Your little PetCo guy, if he hasn't been sold already, will certainly find a home unless he's got something wrong with him. If he's cute and has stolen your heart, then chances are he will steal someone else's, too. Good luck with it! Chana [Posted in FML issue 4477]