friends... i spoke up in support of Tom in this 'thread'...i still think his was a question worth asking... in the same post i questioned Mike's method of response...i have since had a few conversations with Mike...and i would like to say he is a very nice person...i guess the way Tom's post was worded touched a memory of a negative experience in Mike's life...i can understand that...it happens to all of us...yes...me, too...;-) i have no idea what responses will be generated by Mike's post yesterday... i felt i needed to defend Tom...but i am sure that there will be feelings on both sides... i would like to say that no matter how you took Tom's and/or Mike's posts...they both seem to be genuinely nice guys... i hope they can both be valued members of this group...with no hard feelings on any side...:) thank you for listening... JUST PLAIN KAT ===== KITY=^..^=KAT's Fuzzy Frenzy [+15](-14)... See how you can HELP SHELTERS... http://ferretlover97.terrabox.com RAFFLE FOR JEAN... http://ferretlover97.terrabox.com/shelterhelp-Jean.html HELP JEAN, Ferrets Unlimited, PAGE... http://www.kwflatbed.com/jean/jean.html ..... with links to lots of ebays and raffles to help Jean!!! When you care about others....when you reach out to others.... ...when you give of yourself to others...YOU MAKE A DIFFERENCE! [Posted in FML issue 4405]