This is mainly regarding the *nasty rumors* that Kim Fox wrote about, but I believe it can also fit in many areas of our lives. I found this online and thought it was pretty interesting; "Cyber-Gossip If you've ever heard something juicy in an online chat room or in an IM from a friend, you know that the Internet has made it easy to spread a rumor to lots of people with lightning-fast speed. "Cyber-gossip" can involve any of the other types mentioned here. It's easy for people to feel less responsible when starting a rumor online, especially if they're able to do it anonymously, (although you didn't, Kim) Remember that starting a rumor this way, or passing it on, can be even more damaging than if its done in person because of how many eyes it can reach in a short period of time. A hurtful rumor that's spread through cyber-gossip should be taken just as seriously as any other kind of rumor." http://pbskids.org/itsmylife/friends/rumors/article3.html</A> I wanted to pass on a referral to some great reading material. A great book called "Managing your Mouth" by Robert L. Genua. It's only about 192 pages but provides a wealth of information, The author's advice will help readers handle the most trying communication scenarios, including: controversy, gossip, plus there is a valuable guide that starts readers off with an in-depth personal assessment. I think it would be especially helpful in the community like FML where we are always dealing with different personalities. I have seen the gossip mill take its toll on some of the people here. My ferrets gives this book this two paws up! Kris and the Fur Kids >^..^< [Posted in FML issue 4272]