I'm sorry everyone. I'm sitting here drinking my coffee and reading the FML when there is yet another mud-slinging post about who has said what about someone or what they have or haven't done. I'm really getting tired of it. Right now I have two ferrets with lymphoma. The days are coming to a close for one of my sick babies. I don't want to hear about anyones dirty laundry anymore. I joined this list seven years ago to get info on how to take care of my babies and to meet people who have common interests. Don't some of you have personal email that you can take advantage of if you feel the need to air your gripes? I don't care about who said what or who is right or wrong. I care about comforting people when they lose their ferrets. I care about learning how I can be the best parent to my fuzzies. Maybe those responsible can create their own list and they can mudsling to their heart's content. Then the rest of us can get back to the business of what's really important. My heart breaks a little bit more every day when I see the disease progress in my little ones. I come to the list for comfort. Not to read poison posts. Please just stop. Will it matter in five years? How about five days? The FML is not the place for that. Enough already. Frustrated & heart-broken in AZ, Jennifer [Moderator's note: I'm embarrassed to say that I'm not sure which post you refer to since there are a few candidates. I'm guessing it's the Metroferret one. If so, I'm glad to see an official response from them above. BIG] [Posted in FML issue 4285]