Sukie, I would like to thank you for your post on allergies and asthma.I developed allergies and severe asthma late in life ( my forties).I already had ferrets. There is great controversy about asthma and allergies regarding ferrets. Whether it be the dust and other particles clinging to their fur , dander,whole males etc. is immaterial to me.The only thing that is important to me is that I sometimes wheeze,have chest pain, must increase medicines such as prednisone and have difficulty taking a breath. I know there are cases of allergies and asthma being psychosomatic.I know the allergy excuse is a biggie in giving up pets.I know also that regardless of the controversy I have had several asthma attacks that were more than mere discomfort. I have been rushed to the ER ,intubated and found myself in a life threatening situation more than once. These medical crisis were not triggered only by my ferrets, but having ferrets in the home does not help my particular situation.The ferrets only compound an asthmatic reaction to allergen sensitivities in dust,mites, pollution,mold,dander, etc. etc. My pulmonologist thinks I am nuts and encourages me to " get rid of the pollutants". However I love my little "pollutants "and do the best I can to keep them as part of my family. I cannot assume everyone can or will make the same sacrifices I do.To live peacably with ferrets and allergies I have to go to some lengths. When i clean out the cage, my eyes sting and itch for hours. I must repeatedly use antihistimine eye drops rest of the day. The drops cost money. I must take proventil inhaler after cleaning the cage or having the ferrets near my face for prolonged periods or I wheeze.Wheezing in asthmatics can easily spiral out of control ( meds or no meds) to a full blown attack and ER hospitalization.The side effects of proventil for some is a racing heart and sweats. I have learned what my personal limits and warning signs are. When I handle my ferrets a lot ( and i do) I must change clothes and wash my hands or I break out in very itchy hives. This means tons of laundry. Possibly more meds rest of the day.The meds make you sleepy and hazy. If the ferrets nap/play on my bed I must change linens before i go to bed. If i do not ,I cough on and off all night.More laundry and another dose of antihistimines and proventil. Every day I must damp mop the ALL floors or I itch and wheeze.More work, more discomfort,more medicine with it's side effects. When I bathe my ferrets my eyes swell up for a while . More meds, a change of clothes, a shower myself,more laundry,annoying discomfort. Shedding season is a nightmare of scratching , itchy watery eyes and tight breathing . If I have to take them to the vet, I might as well call 911 before i go and tell them to wait outside for me.An office full of dander equals the rest of the day on a nebulizer and swollen itchy eyes.. I have thought about giving them away but i will hang in there with this routine because it works for me and I love them.I balance out my risk, the joy they give me and have come up with this way of living with it. This works for me , this does not work for everyone. Who am I to second guess an individuals tolerance for discomfort or willingness to accept life threatening consequences to keep a pet.Not everyone can keep to a cleaning regimine like this, afford so much medicine, have the medicine work for them,cope with the side effects,take so many measures. As a mother ,I certainly would not second guess someones decision for their child's allergy or asthma. I am tired of being looked at skeptically for my medical condition, as if i am being a big baby who can't cope with a runny nose and a case of the itchies. I am tired of being compared to someone someone else and being told, "well so and so has asthma and lives with ferts just fine" Reaction triggers are very specific, and severity of reaction is very specific.It runs the gamut from mild ,occasional discomfort to medical crisis. For anyone who believes an asthmatic is being a big baby about pets, or a psychosomatic neurotic, go visit an emergency room and SEE someone in a full blown attack. Then we can discuss your willingness to live with this possibility. Asthma can and does kill.You can make choices for yourself. You should not deride anyone elses choice. Christine Twilight girls Art pages Smiling squeezles weasels pages [Posted in FML issue 4271]