Hello Terri, I'm so very sorry to hear about your losses. Your story touched me deeply and I can only begin to imagine what you must be feeling and going through. I know words of sympathy on a impersonal computer sreen written by a total stranger who lives across the globe might seem futile and useless in helping to sooth the unbearable grief you must be feeling right now but I still needed to express them. ~~Mariake http://mariake.tripod.com [Posted in FML issue 4150]