When I asked for help with my ferret, I wanted help not criticism. In the same token, I also wanted to have other responsible and mature individuals contact me. I have taken the words posted by others and considered what they have said to me -- especially those who sent an email to me privately instead of making a private manner public. However, I don't think words on a computer screen can do justice when it is a matter of an individual's lifestyle because there is no way to know what the person is like through words. To have my way of life and my environment criticized left a bad taste in my mouth (so to speak) regarding the ferret community. I am open to those who can give Lilly a good home because I know I cannot give her the time and attention she deserves. There is no way for an individual to know what they are getting into through books and other's experiences -- one has to make the experience on their own and maybe learn from their mistakes. If any individual(s) wants to discuss this matter, please email me privately at [log in to unmask] -Brandie- [Posted in FML issue 3867]