Amanda, How old is your ferret stomping son anyway? That's absolutely horrid behavior for a child that is at an age who should know better. I'm not flaming you honey. I wouldn't ever do that. I know what it's like to be in that position with a significant other. I went through this with my ex boyfriend. You as a human being have needs too and that is just as important. I'm not ready to turn into an old maid with nothing in her life but a lap full of weasels and I'm sure you're not either. So first things first. Is it at all possible that your hubby will lighten up? If he agreed to let you have ferrets to begin with, it's really unfair of him to start complaining after you have a companion animal that you are attached to. Is there a way you can arrange for you and Monty to have your own special play area where he will be safe and your husband won't have anything to gripe about? I'm sure this would be better for both you and Monty than finding him a new home. Maybe if he had a companion he would chill out a little. Explain this to your husband. I really feel for you but don't let anyone flame you. Anyone of us could one day find us in your position and it's easy to jump on the soapbox, much harder to remain there with your feet firmly planted in the other guy's shoes. If it comes down to finding a new home for Monty, I'm sure the new humans would let you visit and you could stay in his life. Only YOU know what is best for Monty. Feel free to contact me anytime you need to talk. Kim S.U.M.S. Rescue [Posted in FML issue 3709]