friends... this is just from my heart...how "I" perceive what happened to Blind Molly... and why/how...the gentleman will speak for himself when he can...but i need to say this...again...this is MY perception of how he fells...but it may be how i WANT it to be...everything is always colored by our own inside feelings... on the care-giver's behalf...he is hurting, too...he did not think he had options for her.......yes...he was wrong...but we all make mistakes and find out later that that was not the best choice...hindsight is 20/20... he loved molly...he was just mistaken about her quality of life... i did finally get to talk to him on the phone...he called me...i hurt for him also... you know how we all doubt when we have to have a baby put to sleep?...the key here is......we DOUBT...and friends impress upon us that "it was the right time"..."there was no doubt"..."you did right"...well...people he knows have copied the posts on the fml and given them to him...he has to live with...for the rest of his life!!...the fact that he did not have to do that...he has no consolation that he did what was best for Molly...a heartbreaking thing to have to face for the rest of your life... he knows now...and he knows that we are out here to help if another "Molly" comes along...i wish i could take his hurt away... no matter what...Molly will long be remembered and loved by many... again...this is just MY feelings on how he feels... kat --- KITY=^..^=KAT and the Kollektive http://www.geocities.com/ferretlover97 Rascal, Sassy, Wolfie, Monkey, Meeja, Pye, Noodles, Sandi, Hope-HollyHeart, Eddie, Lucky, Cissy, Uh-Oh, Jack, Sassy-too, Angel, Lefty-LuvBug, Sonny, Snow & Sebastian...Holding "Li'l Bear" in my Heart... Missing pieces of my heart...Marcel, LittleWhiteGirl, Narmy, OldGuy, D'weezle, and the biggest pieces of my heart...Charlie and Geezer! My ferret Afghans! http://www.geocities.com/crochetkat/ferret [Posted in FML issue 3572]