Just a reminder folks: 1. People do have crashes or other problems and lose addresses. Heck, my e-mail program's address memory just went ka-fluy on me last night. 2. People do have sudden unexpected difficulties arise such a dying or seriously ill family member needing care, perhaps even requiring a move. 3. People may wind up without jobs and need to spend time taking care of that. 4. People sometimes have unusual opportunities arise that require all their attention for a while. I am sure that you can each think of a list as long as your own arm or leg why something had to be postponed or even ignored by you at some times in the past, or a time when you tried to reconstruct the address of the person who wrote to you and hope that the individual assumes that you at least tried. Everyone else here also has a full life outside the boundaries of the FML, with aspects unshared by the rest of us that sometimes require that we just assume the best of them and try hard to not take an unintentional mess-up personally. [Posted in FML issue 3338]