No offence, but why shouldn't Sandees human need to be asked to post on peoples deceased ferrets? I mean, I think it's great that she's there for those who enjoy it and get comfort out of it, but they should have to ask for it...how hard can it to be to say, "Sandee, please help my baby over the bridge." I for one, wouldn't want it done for me. I feel it is taking light of my passed away ferret and it would make me feel like it was a joke or something. I don't find it comforting at all. For those it helps, I can't say enough how nice it is for Sandee to be there, but for those who don't like it-for whatever reason-shouldn't have to ask for her not to do it....it makes them feel bad to do so. I have to post anonymous because just for sharing my opinion-my mailbox would be full from people who don't like it. It's just a opinion and deep down, I think Sandee and her human would apprieciate knowing peoples feelings instead of assuming everyones is the same. [JF] [Posted in FML issue 3236]