My oldest, Ootz(MF Blk Sable 9 yro), quit eating about two weeks ago. She lost weight and we went to the vet. Ootz has had two adrenal surgeries on her right gland and that is what I thought was happening. Test confirmed that it was not her adrenal gland or anything else we could define. Since the visit I have been force feeding and hydrating her. The Vet seems to think it is just her time to go. All she does is sleep when I am not feeding her. After feeding her when I put her back into our room she makes a circuit of the room and them goes to her spot to sleep until time to go to the cage. Am I being selfish by keeping her here if it is her time? Should I go ahead and help her cross the Bridge or keep feeding her as long as she will let me? I love her very much but do not want to make going any harder for her than necessary. Please no angry messages. I just needed someone to bounce my thoughts off. She acts normal except that she will not eat or drink on her own. She has shown interest in a ferret treat and things that are plastic but will not eat any food. Thanks, Elwin [Posted in FML issue 3238]