for Mary.... i wish this would just die down...mary was posting about her sick husband... and looking for support for that...then XXX threw in the business part of it...and we got off on that...and lost sight of the issue...which was...mary needed support from us during this really bad time for her husband... i wish we could have left it at that... if my husband was that sick...i would turn to all the wonderful people on the FML, too...they are my family...and i know i can count on them to get me through whatever faces me... my heart goes out to Mary and Eric...this is a very difficult time for them...[and ultimately the strain has to reflect on their fuzzies, too...[ but mary turned to us for support...and we turned it into a debate...that is just shameful of us... for myself...i am ashamed...and Mary, i hope you can forgive me...i am truly sorry... kat ===== KITY=^..^=KAT... ( a.k.a. ...FuzzieMom ) and the krew... Rascal, Sassy, Wolfie, Monkey(Shine), Meeja, Narmy, PopPye, Noodles (Slyk), Sandi-Mandi, Hope-HollyHeart, Edison!, Lucky, and Princess!!!!! Missing pieces of my heart...Marcel, LittleWhiteGirl, OldGuy & Charlie... at the Bridge! THE FERRETS' PAGE..."http://www.geocities.com/ferretlover97" Help Ferrets Unlimited Ferret Shelter...Use I-Give... http://www.iGive.com/html/ssi.cfm?cid=7364&mid=103840 [Posted in FML issue 3150]