Hi all, I got a lot of responses on how to talk to my friend. I want to thank everyone for your help. She called me back and wants me to go with her to the pet store tuesday evening (eep!). But I am going to talk to her today. You all brought up a lot of good points and advice. Thank you soooo much! I also want to thank those who gave me advice on getting weight back on Ginger. I am going out today to get some things for her to fatten up on. thanks again!!! -Sarah and the Wonderous Weasels [Posted in FML issue 3094]