I have five ferrets buried on a friend's property because I don't currently own any property. My original intention was to temporarily bury them there and move them when I acquired a residence. I am currently looking to purchase my first home. I have the graves marked with flat pieces of slate. My friend has since remarrried and the new husband is on a power trip. My friend doesn't make any decisions on her own anymore. Today I was told that he wants to move my grave markers. This was very upsetting to me. He has cleared out the weeds on the property and the graves are visible. My friend and I selected an area out back towards the woods. She owns 16 acres. She even put a little wire fence around them which since has been knocked down by the husband I believe. No one who visits can see the graves. They are out of the way. The husband says he will put a stake where the graves are. What could I say? I had the markers exactly where each ferret is buried. I have a feeling he has already moved them. I declined a party invitation because of this incident, and the day I remove my ferrets from there will be the last time I set foot on the property. I want to tell him something when I leave to let him know exactly what type of crud he is. Any ideas? Moxie and Chance [Posted in FML issue 3044]