bill and diane killian wrote: >>From: Sunshine <[log in to unmask]> >You writing a book or something? If so be honest about why you are >asking questions. My reply: What difference does it make, whether she is writing a book, or wants the information for her own uses? If she's writing a book...Great. If not.... Great. I thought this response was rude. I try to gather all the info that I can and if it keeps going this way, *I* just might put it all in a book. Why don't you either answer the question in a polite manner, or don't answer at all. If you're genuinely curious as to if she is writing a book, ask in a nice manner. Its just not right to post responses like the one you did, and might make others hesitate to ask questions for much needed answers. Again, I ask...What difference does it make if she is writing a book or not? Alicia [Moderator's note: By the same logic then, this post should probably also have gone directly to the Killians and not to the list. Enough please -- Sunshine asked a question as did the Killians but it's gone way beyond that. I don't see a need for further comments regarding the motives of either party and I'll send back such posts. BIG] [Posted in FML issue 2973]