About this CDFA1 thing.
 
I am not siding with anyone.  Everyone is entitled to their own opinion
HOWEVER
before we formulate our opinion and make judgments about either of these
people, maybe look at not only what was said, but how it was said to the
other person..  I know that if (before I got angry) someone took that
attitude and phrased things the way the man did, I would have immediately
been put on the defensive and gotten angry.  How I would have handeled
myself from there I do not know and I will not speculate.  BUT everyone,
BEFORE anyone passes judgment, put yourself in her position, and think how
you would feel if those exact things were said to you IN THAT WAY.  and
remember that CDFA1 is also human and hasa great love for our fuzzy babies.
 
                                My  2 cents
 
                                        Donna in Germany
[Posted in FML issue 1590]