I am so sorry for your loss only time will heal the pain.  About the urns,
I don't use standard urns.  I go out a buy a special item that will hold
my babes ashes and keep it out where I can always say hi.  For Saki I
bought a oriental jar with a lid, for Sammy I found a little copper &
brass nic nac that looked like a travel trunk, for Spunky I found a silver
heart shaped box.  I have them engraved or buy an engraved tag to glue
on and superglue them shut with their ashes.  They are nicer items and
usually less expensive.  Each baby has something special that matches
their personality and I picked out just for them.  It is also a very
healing experience.
 
I hope that helps.
 
Kim the Oregon one
 
 
Kim Reyes
Residential Specialist
John L. Scott Real Estate
Direct:  (503) 380-4195
Toll Free 1-877-490-2595
http://www.kimreyes.com
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[Posted in FML issue 3750]