Dear Fellow FMLers..

Ok here is what is happening in my world. My wife has stage 3 cervical
cancer. Not the news we wanted to hear right now. She was in stage one
just like two months ago but after surgery and the doctor de-bridding
most of the lymph nodes he could safely reach it was discovered that
the cancer had spread a bit more than what the PET scan showed. It is
still fightable but it is more harder to get to now. Nita will have to
undergo chemo and Radiation to try to kill it all. Please if you are
a prayer warrior or believe in Prayer I ask that you pray for my wife
Juanita Hurd. We call her Nita for short but she has been a part of me
now for over 33 years and I want her to be around for another 33 years
if God is willing. We have always been a helping force in the lives of
others around us.. Now we need help and it seems that God is the only
one who can give us the help we need. I ask that you pray for healing
in her body. I ask for your prayers as well to fight my anger and to
try to understand what is going on and try to accept that which I
cannot change. I am very angry folks. I feel that the dotors who have
been treating my wife for about a year now should have seen the cancer
and should have done something at that time except to tell us that she
didn't have any cancer. I know that right now my wife doesn't need me
to be angry, but she needs me to be as supportive as possible.. I am
but I am also angry at the prospect of losing my wife. It just seems
so unfair that she has to go thru all of this crap. But in the end we
do intend to win the day. We will be as aggressive as possible to kill
this all off. I want the doctors to be as aggressive as possible as
well. They seem to be dragging their feet getting treatment scheduled
and underway. That I cannot understand. Yeah I know she has to heal a
bit after surgery becos the radiation slows down the healing process..
I undertsand all that but it has been 4 weeks now and the cancer is
spreading. Now is the time to kill it. Not next month or maybe by the
new year..NOW..

I humbly ask for your prayers and good thoughts.

On a side note here all my fuzzies are doing very well. Thank God for
that. I couldn't handle problems on both sides right now. My hob is
big and smelly but that is the way I love him.. I love that Eau D' Hob
waiffing thru the air..LOL. Yeah but hey I am a fret nutter ya know...

Thank You to all and I hope everyone is having a great holliday Season.
we are hoping for a miracle, as this is the time of year for one then
he?

Best to all and lets stay fuzzy out there shall we then??

Fred Hurd
Reno Nevada

After All It Is For The Ferrets!!!!

[Posted in FML 6176]