>Later, though, when there has been a lot of care of ones with great
>needs there can be a time of needing a rest for a while and having
>fewer, healthier ones to stay get an emotional breather.
I must say I am planning this myself. At the most I had 31 ferrets.
Had the money for them, and had a blast living with them. Because I took
in a lot of unwanted ferrets, I ended up with two general age brackets.
Three years ago I went through a lot of passings, and am facing this
again this year.
It is tough emotionally. Tonight I fed Miss MaryJane her baby food
treat, gave her some ferretone and she then laid in a sleep sack on the
couch with me. She is frail, blind and perhaps 8-9 years old (unknown
because she was found on a street, walking down the middle of it).
And since all of mine are oldsters, except for Sugar, they are all
dealing with various problems. We have second rounds of adrenal (with 9
year olds),liver disease, lymphoma. It is *extremely* hard emotionally
at times, because there are no easy or quick answers.
I have already decided that when these guys are gone, I am taking a
break. But then, I have literally owned animals since the age of five,
when Miss Paddlefoot Bismark Von Merchant (a dachshund) was given to me.
And yes I named her myself. Don't ask, I have no clue. I need a break
for me.
But then as I sat writing this, Miss Sugar came up for a game of chase.
Really, what better thing in life than a game of chase with a fert?
Maybe I don't need any time off. Sigh.
Blessings,
Margie
[Posted in FML issue 4381]
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